When Achievement Isn't Enough: Finding Your Way to Deeper Connection

When Achievement Isn't Enough: Finding Your Way to Deeper Connection

This powerful theme addresses the internal conflicts and emotional turbulence that arise when love, trust, and fear intersect in our personal and professional lives.

We explore how these emotions can pull us in different directions, creating a tug of war that impacts our relationships, self-esteem, and decision-making processes. Understanding this dynamic is key to developing healthier relationships and a more stable sense of self.

Our discussion will provide valuable insights into navigating these complex emotions, offering strategies to foster trust and reduce fear in our lives. We’ll talk about the importance of vulnerability, setting boundaries, and the role of communication in building and maintaining trust.

Welcome to "The Heart of Success," where we redefine success with Larisa Vakulina – a multi-awarded entrepreneur, healer, and mentor.

Feeling unfulfilled despite your achievements? Larisa knows your journey. Each week, she shares powerful insights to help you blend professional success with personal fulfillment. Through her unique blend of business strategies and spiritual principles, you'll discover your true self and build a heart-aligned life.

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Chapters

• 1:04 The Powerful Woman's Dilemma
• 1:53 The Unexplained Longing Within
• 2:52 Finding Connection Starts With Yourself
• 5:06 Breaking the Cycle of Failed Relationships
• 6:45 Invitation to Ask Kara

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:32

Powerful woman. You have mastered it all. You have built successful business, you achieved amazing results, you built luxurious style of living and everything that you achieved and built is so amazing and you're proud of yourself. But when the lights go off and you are in the quietness and aloneness of your space, you feel this really deep longing. You feel alone and lonely and you feel that something is missing. So you are admired and respected and you look up to by many, up to by many. But deep inside there is a longing, the longing of deeper connection with another human being. You long to build and develop a healthy relationship with your partner, with your husband, your intimate connection.

Speaker 1: 2:01

But for some reason you couldn't really work it out. You puzzled why is this? I see you and I feel you, because I was there myself too. I couldn't really understand why. All the external successes, everything, all the challenges and all the issues and problems that life would throw up to me, I could just find the way to resolve, and I found the way to achieve it all, to go through any challenge and come out on another side with more power, with resilience, with more knowledge and understanding.

Speaker 1: 3:02

But when it comes to love and intimacy, there is this feeling of not being enough, or there's a feeling, there's a doubt inside that really blocks you to open up. I was there, I know how it feels, and all of these achievements and all of the awards and celebrations of your achievement is not bringing you that inner, deep fulfillment. You don't really feel that joyfulness and love that you're longing for. I really see you, but what I would like to say to you that it is absolutely possible to start to build and develop healthy and fulfilled relationships. I did it worked for me. I did it worked for me. And the way you can do it, you need to start with yourself. So what I'm sharing with you here is an opening, an invitation to start to take that first step, because you've been there many times, over and over again.

Speaker 1: 4:38

You are stepping in the same sort of experience where you're so excited and inspired by a new connection and you're putting everything that you have into this relationship, only to find out later that you are alone again, how frustrating and how painful it is, and the more of these experiences that you have and go through, the more you start to doubt yourself. But that's not true. You are a goddess and you just need to understand a little bit of how that internal power, that power that you have to go through any challenge, needs to be shifted and learned a little bit how to find that very soft place in yourself, the place that knows how to love and be loved. I found that place and I now have absolutely fulfilled relationships, intimate personal with any other people, with colleagues, with children, with everyone. Because when we found that place and when we work through all of these limitations and all the doubts and all of this dialogue about criticizing yourself, you can build relationship with anyone and they all gonna be fulfilled and healthy and joyful and happy.

Speaker 1: 6:33

So I just want how puzzle you in this space, because you know how to build successful business, how to be achieving anything and everything. You always put everything that you have into achieving, but that one thing that you cannot master is your love, love for other, the intimate connection, the deep experience that we humans so want to have. So I'm inviting you to see at Ask Kara, a journey of love, fulfillment and deep connections. If you want to just have a mapping session with me, there is a button down below this video. You can just click it and you can schedule a mapping session with me that we can have a look, how can we stop this vicious cycle for you so that you can sort it out, this of your life, in this area of your life, and have have it all. Thank you so much. I really would like to see you on another side and have that beautiful, happy, joyful, fulfilled relationship. Thank you.